After a month, a Muslim family came to live on the top floor. They have five family members, a father, mother, one son and two daughters. The 17 year old girl has already had an affair with a boy who lived in the neighborhood where they lived before. She liked him very much, and he came to see her when she moved. Her mother and father knew all about it. The mother didn't mind but the father did care and was more strict.

When the family rented the top floor within a month the girl started coming to my house. She sometimes told me about her boyfriend and the differences between him and her father. I told her some of the disadvantages of this relationship but she only understood a little. He stopped calling her and within a month he changed his number without informing her.

After about 20 days she became attracted to me and at first I didn't even realize it. She knew that I didn't have a girlfriend. I'm self-employed and I earn 30-40 thousand per month. Her family is not in a good position financially and sometimes I helped them when her father asked. I never give more importance to money over a person. I like to live free instead of keeping the money in a safe. My thinking is "money comes and goes but relationships can last forever, so if someone gets some happiness with your efforts then do it"

She always tried to be close to me and found every spare minute to meet me and talk. As I knew her family status from her brother, I tried to help them because only her father was earning money at that time. The day of her birthday came and I gifted her a computer because her father works in a court and I thought maybe he can use it also. After that she slowly started asking me for money. Sometimes she told me she had to pay her school tuition fees, etc. I always gave her as much as she wanted.

Finally after about 2 months she told me that she was in love with me. At first I told her that she was already in a relationship and it's not good to travel in two boats at the same time. She said she realized that her previous relationship can destroy her father's image. In a Muslim family, they don't allow anyone into their home who is not of their religion. But the day of her birthday they invited me to celebrate. One day I asked her about her previous relationship and she told me everything. She said she loved him very much and sometimes she met him in public early in the morning when no one was awake.

I understood everything and told her about my nature. My nature is not to use a girl for my satisfaction but to build a long lasting relationship. I told her if she wanted to be in a relationship just to pass time and for fun only then sorry because sometimes you cross limits with no way to return. I told her that I never even touched a girl before and wouldn't want to spoil her life. She understood and said she would maintain our relationship. She started calling me every 20 minutes and up until midnight because she knew that I go to sleep late.

One night she came to my room around 1 o'clock. I was so surprised and I let her in quickly before anyone saw her. I asked her why she came and she said she wanted to marry me and didn't want to leave. I asked her again and again if she was serious and she answered yes. The next night she did some adult talking and asked to meet me by the stairs. I went and she removed her top and said she wanted to be considered my wife from now and for me to act as her husband. I said okay. Summer and winter came and she started coming to my room at midnight and stayed for more than an hour. At that point we had sex for the first time. I realized it was her first time also and now her life was ruined.

I kept my word and told her brother, younger sister and mother about our relationship and marriage. First they refused but after a few days they agreed. So every night she came and we had sex. Sometimes I went to her room when no one was at home. This went on for about 2 years. I fulfilled her every demand and her every need. Whatever she wanted, I never said no to. I bought her clothes, an E-bike, kinetics and a vehicle for her brother. I did it because I wanted to marry her and considered her my responsibility.

While she was in school a new student started flirting with her and helped her and she became attracted to him. One day he gave her a love letter and she put it into her bag. Her sister told their brother and father and the father complained to the principal. She said she didn't know what he considered her because she always referred to him as her brother. That was her first lie, her friends said he never called her sister till he joined the school. After a long conversation, she admitted her fault.

She stopped meeting me at midnight. She started ignoring me and told me that her mother and father knew about it. Since then I have caught her in many lies. Something not good happened between us which was "sex". In the Muslim community if girl has sex before marriage she will be found out on her wedding night if she doesn't bleed. I told her this and at first she was angry with me and what I have done and because she has to marry me. After that she met me about 2-3 more times at midnight.

After 3 and half years they moved out of the house and went to live far. At the new place she has a new neighbor-friend who lives next door to her. Somehow he got her number from her sister's mobile phone and started sending messages to her as stranger. He always praised her and she started cheating with him. One day she was caught by her father and her brother told me the whole story. That broke my heart so badly. I didn't eat for 3 days. I asked her brother to ask her why she has done this and if I wasn't the right guy for her or if there was any problem why didn't she just tell me. She said she doesn't care about me and doesn't want to marry me and I am nothing to her now. She still cares for that school boy and only wants to marry him. He is also Muslim. She finally admitted she was only with me for my money and nothing else and she doesn't need me anymore.

I don't know why this happened and why she did this. Why did she try to have a relationship with more than one guy? What is in her mind, I failed to understand. I cared for her as my wife and she only slept with me for money. Please, I need some advice from you people about what I should do.