I know this is going to become a problem if it's not addressed soon and I don't want to end our relationship over it. I feel so betrayed by him and I'm nervous he's going to cheat again if he's not getting it at home. At times I wish I didn't know about his affair at all. Maybe it's better to be clueless sometimes. When I look at him all I see is a man who cheated despite the fact that we've been together so long and all I want to do is cry. I don't know where our relationship is going and I'm hurt because although I love him something changed and I don't know if we can ever get it back. I don't believe him when he tells me he has to stay late at work or when he claims he's going to hang with his friend. I can't help thinking that he could still be involved with the other woman.

I'm driving myself crazy and I'm desperate for some advice from people who have dealt with a similar situation. Is it possible to forgive and forget? Will the images of him and the other woman eventually go away from my mind? I devoted three years to this man and I hope our relationship can be salvaged. If things don't work out for us and I end up leaving him, will the next guy cheat on me too?