Quoting Jennie:

I would never trust those HIV drugs, look up the side effects and match them to the symptoms of AIDS. I have a friend who is an AIDS survivor, she was healthy when she was diagnosed, and started getting sick from taking the drugs. 11 years later she found out that AIDS is a fraud, research it, you'll be shocked to learn the truth, she was!

Don't kill yourself by taking those drugs! HIV is a VIRUS and don't viruses go away on their own, and there are other reasons why your white blood cell count is up. HIV isn't the only cause, but you told them your man cheated so they figured they could hook you for life on pills, it's all about money not your health!

If ANY of that were true, how do you explain all the deaths from AIDS in Africa? I think we can safely assume that they aren't on $$$$ medications.

In closing, you're a neurotic dumba$$

You should post a picture of him, to embarrass him and let other women know who he is, so they won't make the same mistake you did in sleeping with him before marriage and without protection!

Yes, if he knew he had aids and didn't tell you that is attempted murder. But don't let that bring your spirits down. You can get pregnant and carry a child with aids. I know someone who has aids and has 3 kids and it didn't pass on to the kids because it wasn't active so don't give up hope.

I was told I had aids in 2003. I was hospitalized & my cd4 cell count was only 24.
I am now as healthly as can be and back at work. About the meds, yes they are expensive but there is help out there if you know where to go.

I was on 15 different kind of meds and now I am on 1 and the meds do not make you sick. They make you a little sleepy until your body gets used to it. Please don't belive that stuff that it is a virus and it will heal itself. That is why people with it get sicker, cause they don't do what the dr tells them to do. I trust my life to my dr, she brought me back to where I am today.

Pray to god he will help you. Think positive, if you give up it won't get better. My ex cheated with a girl whose boyfriend was gay. He had it for almost 6 years before I found out I had it. When I found out I had been married for 3 years and my husband stood by me all the way. Not telling someone you have aids is a crime. Good luck and god bless

I agree with others that have said that he should be arrested. What he did is a serious crime in more ways than one! My heart goes out to you and I will keep you in my Prayers always. That being said, I want to say DON'T GIVE UP! Many strides are being made and you just never know. You can live a healthy long live by taking care of yourself and taking the meds and yes, you can have kids also as someone already spoke up about.

You have been dealt a really bad hand but you can use that bad hand to help MANY other people by doing what you have done here. Speaking out about this situation you can show others what can happen if they are not careful in their sexuality. You have shown a lot of strength in that sharing so keep reaching out and sharing your story. I have a lot of admiration for your strength.
God Bless you in your journey.

Quoting Odessa:

I definitely would press charges. He can actually go to prison for infecting people. It is illegal to knowingly have the HIV virus and not tell your partner you have it and them get it. I would get whoever you could find that he infected together and sue him. That way you can help prevent him from doing it again to another unsuspecting woman. The best of luck to you. I will keep you in my prayers.

You are so right. It IS illegal. I've seen it many times-they just don't care what they are doing to others lives but it is illegal and she should definitely take further steps in giving him a life full of jail or prison time.

I myself at age of 18 found myself in the same position. I was with a man for 6 months when I found a hidden pill bottle. I called the pharmacy to ask what the pills were for and they said HIV. I dropped the phone and couldn't breathe. I confronted him and he told me he had HIV for 8 years and didn't tell me.

I had stopped using condoms after 3 months with him and never thought about HIV. When I found out I had it I stayed with him because I thought now no one will ever want me and I was going to die alone. I started to educate myself on HIV. I was on a 3 medicine [censored]tail that was working well after switching medicine several times before we got it right.

My virus level was undetected and my T cells were still on the high side. I was doing well and left the low life who gave me this devastating illness. I met a very nice man who doesn't have HIV and was very open with him about what happened and what I have. We seen the doctor so he could explain how we could keep him from ever getting it from me.

I am now 32 and we have been together 6 years and he is still negative. I also have 2 healthy boys who do not have HIV. Because my level was so low and new medicine on the market I was able to have 2 healthy kids.

In the beginning I thought this was a death sentence and my life was over. It took me a long time and the right person to come along to see I will still live a long happy life to spit what I have. I am sorry to hear what has happened to you and want you to know you're not alone.

So many people out there have had the same done to them. I now speak to kids about safe sex in the hope to prevent this from happening to them. I know it will take you some time but your life is not over there is still hope as long as you never give up.

My ex is still sleeping with women and not telling them he has it so who knows how many more people are going through this. Men like your ex and mine should be in jail for what they have done to us.

I wish you well and hope this offers you some hope for your future.