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Both of my parents started smoking in their teens and they continued on for decades. I always hated the smell of cigarettes and continuously asked my mom and dad to quit. They did not listen and kept on exposing me to second hand smoke for many years of my life.
I dreaded weekends because my parents' friends who were all smokers would come over our house. The house was filled with so much smoke that it sometimes looked foggy inside. The weekends we had company over, I secluded myself in my bedroom and came out only to use the bathroom. One year, my dad went for his annual exam and the doctor urged him to quit smoking cigarettes for heath reasons. This wasn't the first time the doctor suggested he give up smoking, but this time something clicked and my dad decided to finally listen. When he got home after his appointment he threw out his last pack of cigarettes, and never picked up another cigarette since. My mother followed suit and they both were able to quit cold turkey. I think quitting together made it easier for them.
I was ecstatic and relieved that they decided to stop this nasty little habit that affected them and me as well. My dad had an easier time giving up cigarettes than my mom did. She had some wild mood swings afterwards, it's like she became a monster. It took months for my mother to calm down and be back to her old self. I gather quitting smoking is very hard because your body craves the nicotine so badly.
I dated a couple of smokers but it never led to anything serious. I couldn't see myself spending my life with someone addicted to cigarettes. To me kissing a smoker was like kissing an ashtray. Their breath, hair and clothes always stunk. I knew I could never marry someone who smokes. There was no way I was going to expose my future kids to living with a smoker. In the past, I remember going out to eat and asking to be seated in non smoking sections. The restaurants couldn't contain the smoke just in one section and they always reeked of cigarettes. I started avoiding those places because they seemed to cater to smokers. Thank goodness smoking is now banned in all public buildings including restaurants. Even though my house is smoke free, I don't like walking into a cloud of smoke when I'm out and about. Whether it's in front of a store, an office building, a restaurant, or other public place, smokers continue to put their needs ahead of others. Just because they are standing outside, puffing away doesn't mean they're not affecting everyone who comes in contact with them. Why is it that people who smoke stand right next to entrances. Can't they have some courtesy and move further away. Maybe they're annoyed they can't smoke inside so they have to be pests to everyone else.
I think most smokers are careless and inconsiderate people, who only think about themselves and their nasty addiction. Some, but not all are litter bugs who throw their cigarette butts all over the place. Not only are they polluting the air we breathe, but also you can't walk very far without finding cigarette butts everywhere.To this day I cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke, it literally turns my stomach. I'm glad the price of cigarettes has shot up so much in recent years. I hope these hard times will force people to quit smoking because they won't be able to afford it anymore. People are dying everyday from cancer and other diseases caused by smoking. Once I found out that breathing in second hand smoke is just as dangerous and deadly, I am even more opposed to being around smokers. If you are a smoker and reading this please think about what you are doing to your body and the people around you. I hope you find the strength within you to quit smoking cigarettes and live a healthier life.
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You're comparing apples and oranges. I can't stand it when people think they are presenting a legitimate point into an argument (such as the shallow-minded idiot I quoted) and they can't even realize something as elementary as understanding the difference between night and day basically.
Second hand smoke has been proven to be harmful to others. Hey guys and gals, you want to smoke, and be a morons, that's your choice, however don't even start with that bullsheet "It's my right to smoke when and where I damn well please!" ... that's just being inconsiderate... and you want to try and turn the tables saying non-smokers are inconsiderate of the smokers.
Why in the hell should a non-smoker be considerate of you putting yourself into an early grave? You SHOULD have to be considerate of the non-smokes b/c second hand smoke is harmful to us. We're not putting your personal health into jeopardy, so to hell with you expecting us to be considerate of you and your nasty habit.
If anything, you should be bowing down and kissing our feet, b/c we're trying to help you fools see the light. Smoking cigs can and often does lead to cancer.
Furthermore, I can't help but cringe when I see some of you smokers talk about how there's really not enough 'evidence' to back smoking really does kill. Some of you morons (understatement ) honestly think the government releases false and bogus reports about smoking deaths just so they can tax you more.
OMFG... LMFAO... there are literally morons out there like you that really believe that bullsheet, or at a minimum you know it's the truth, but you're in such denial you keep telling yourself you're not slowly killing yourself.
I really, really feel sorry for you guys. Forest Gump tripping on acid could make more coherent, rational and intelligent decisions/actions than the average smoker. Sad.
If you want to kill yourself so badly, do it in a way that won't hurt everyone around you. The people's rights that are being stomped on are all the innocent people around you who have to breathe it in as well. People like you only care about themselves and are too stupid to think about what you're really doing.
What about alcohol?? Now there's something that when consumed at great lenghts is lethal. I've never seen on the front page where it reads " five dead, killed by a driver under the influence of cigarettes" but I can say everyday I can read in the paper that one or more are killed by a drunk driver.
You sound considerate but unfortunately you are a rare case from my experience. I cannot open my window because someone in my apartment complex is chain smoking constantly. I have asthma and it is exacerbated by smoking. Smokers complain about their rights but yet I actually had to QUIT a job because my smoking coworker who sat next to me kept smoking out the window and my health got so bad I had no choice but to leave.
Rather than "tell on her" I asked her to stop, but she was incredulous that it bothered me. Rather than go to HR I decided to find a new job. So I feel that my whole life seems to be affected by YOUR choice to smoke. Sorry I have asthma, sorry I get sick. But I really despise smokers because of my experiences. I'm sure SOME are considerate but the majority I've seen aren't. Oh and I love the ones that don't want the smoke in their house so they smoke out their window or on their porch so it goes into everyone else's house.
@ kaimiryu Drinking and eating burgers doesn't blow smoke into my face. What does drinking and eating burgers have to do with people that smoke?
You have NO IDEA what people may be going through or what they have been through to cause them to do what they do, but again, you have no right. You're so foolish by the things you say, and my advice to you, would be to GROW UP. Stop being selfish and consider other people's feelings.
Time moved forward I got a little older and started to understand that the way I was behaving was ridiculas. You can't force someone into something just because it is healthier or alienate them because you do not agree. Ironically I have now come full circle, a couple of years after my divorce I myself began smoking. Totally shocking for anyone that had known me when I was growing up.
My smoking has also led to having to hide it from my family, I am now remarried, an adult with my own home and I have to hide this from my family and certain friends. This is what I regret the most, due to the fact that I know it will be an inconvience typically I will not participate in family functions.I know that must sound ridiculas to forego time with your family because of smoking.
I had actually quit for quite some time and it was such a relief, being able to come and go without having to worry about smelling like smoke or wanting a cigarette. But alas I began smoking again, I am courteous I smoke outside of my house and typically not in a car. Most smokers want to be courteous however this ban on smoking is getting out of hand.
People have smoked for a long time and will continue to do so, the increase in price is not going to stop smoking, the smokefree bars, etc. People single out smokers because typically you either are or not a smoker. If you are not you do not understand, if you are you just want to smoke and be left alone. It is almost a current day segregation.
Most people are not going to come into contact with enough second hand smoke to seriously impact their health, unless you have serious medical issues. People are dying every day of things that can be prevented by a healthier lifestyle.
The only reason smokers are attacked is because society has made it acceptable. You would not walk into a restaurant and start berading someone who is overweight for ordering a burger. If you don't like smoke, why is not as much your obligation to deal with as someone who smokes accepting that if they want to do certain things they will probably not be able to smoke?
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