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Why are Smokers so Inconsiderate? PDF Print E-mail
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Both of my parents started smoking in their teens and they continued on for decades. I always hated the smell of cigarettes and continuously asked my mom and dad to quit. They did not listen and kept on exposing me to second hand smoke for many years of my life. 

 

I dreaded weekends because my parents' friends who were all smokers would come over our house.  The house was filled with so much smoke that it sometimes looked foggy inside.  The weekends we had company over, I secluded myself in my bedroom and came out only to use the bathroom.
 
One year, my dad went for his annual exam and the doctor urged him to quit smoking cigarettes for heath reasons. This wasn't the first time the doctor suggested he give up smoking, but this time something clicked and my dad decided to finally listen. When he got home after his appointment he threw out his last pack of cigarettes, and never picked up another cigarette since. My mother followed suit and they both were able to quit cold turkey. I think quitting together made it easier for them.

I was ecstatic and relieved that they decided to stop this nasty little habit that affected them and me as well. My dad had an easier time giving up cigarettes than my mom did. She had some wild mood swings afterwards, it's like she became a monster. It took months for my mother to calm down and be back to her old self.  I gather quitting smoking is very hard because your body craves the nicotine so badly.
 
inconsiderate-smokersI dated a couple of smokers but it never led to anything serious. I couldn't see myself spending my life with someone addicted to cigarettes. To me kissing a smoker was like kissing an ashtray. Their breath, hair and clothes always stunk. I knew I could never marry someone who smokes. There was no way I was going to expose my future kids to living with a smoker. In the past, I remember going out to eat and asking to be seated in non smoking sections. The restaurants couldn't contain the smoke just in one section and they always reeked of cigarettes. I started avoiding those places because they seemed to cater to smokers.  Thank goodness smoking is now banned in all public buildings including restaurants.
 
Even though my house is smoke free, I don't like walking into a cloud of smoke when I'm out and about. Whether it's in front of a store, an office building, a restaurant, or other public place, smokers continue to put their needs ahead of others. Just because they are standing outside, puffing away doesn't mean they're not affecting everyone who comes in contact with them. Why is it that people who smoke stand right next to entrances. Can't they have some courtesy and move further away. Maybe they're annoyed they can't smoke inside so they have to be pests to everyone else.

I think most smokers are careless and inconsiderate people, who only think about themselves and their nasty addiction. Some, but not all are litter bugs who throw their cigarette butts all over the place. Not only are they polluting the air we breathe, but also you can't walk very far without finding cigarette butts everywhere.To this day I cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke, it literally turns my stomach. I'm glad the price of cigarettes has shot up so much in recent years. I hope these hard times will force people to quit smoking because they won't be able to afford it anymore. 
 
People are dying everyday from cancer and other diseases caused by smoking. Once I found out that breathing in second hand smoke is just as dangerous and deadly, I am even more opposed to being around smokers. If you are a smoker and reading this please think about what you are doing to your body and the people around you.  I hope you find the strength within you to quit smoking cigarettes and live a healthier life.


 

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0 #21 Seriously? *rolls eyes*Josh 2012-02-16 20:27
Quoting kaimiryu:
I am not a smoker, but they have the right to do as they choose. I don't really like the smell, but it has never bothered me when they are outside. In fact, I can hardly smell it when a smoker is outside. My husband smokes, also, and yes he does smell when he FIRST comes inside, after a few minutes the smell is gone. You really are making a big deal out of nothing. Besides, drinking is bad for you, eating fatty foods is bad for you, but I am sure you still do those. How would you like it if someone told you that drinking and eating burgers offended them so much that they are going to make you stop?


You're comparing apples and oranges. I can't stand it when people think they are presenting a legitimate point into an argument (such as the shallow-minded idiot I quoted) and they can't even realize something as elementary as understanding the difference between night and day basically.

Second hand smoke has been proven to be harmful to others. Hey guys and gals, you want to smoke, and be a morons, that's your choice, however don't even start with that bullsheet "It's my right to smoke when and where I damn well please!" ... that's just being inconsiderate... and you want to try and turn the tables saying non-smokers are inconsiderate of the smokers.

Why in the hell should a non-smoker be considerate of you putting yourself into an early grave? You SHOULD have to be considerate of the non-smokes b/c second hand smoke is harmful to us. We're not putting your personal health into jeopardy, so to hell with you expecting us to be considerate of you and your nasty habit.

If anything, you should be bowing down and kissing our feet, b/c we're trying to help you fools see the light. Smoking cigs can and often does lead to cancer.

Furthermore, I can't help but cringe when I see some of you smokers talk about how there's really not enough 'evidence' to back smoking really does kill. Some of you morons (understatement ) honestly think the government releases false and bogus reports about smoking deaths just so they can tax you more.

OMFG... LMFAO... there are literally morons out there like you that really believe that bullsheet, or at a minimum you know it's the truth, but you're in such denial you keep telling yourself you're not slowly killing yourself.

I really, really feel sorry for you guys. Forest Gump tripping on acid could make more coherent, rational and intelligent decisions/actions than the average smoker. Sad.
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+2 #20 Ignorantguest 2011-12-03 01:22
If smoking cause lung cancer then why do people who have never smoked nor been around second hand smoke get lung caner? Does that mean we have no idea what smoking actually does? If it's ok to raise taxes on cigarettes, then it's right we raise it for fast food. Research has shown more people die from being overweight then smoking and being overweight does affect others. It puts them at a higher risk of a heart attack, depression,havi ng pre term babies. So unless you don't smoke, drink and you eat a balanced diet and exercise 30 min a day you shouldn't judge others.
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+1 #19 RE: Why are Smokers so Inconsiderate?Josh 2011-11-08 00:31
Quoting Joanmarie:
Please this is making me sick!! Yes I'm a smoker and proud of it!! I'm also a citizen of the United States of America and I'm getting my rights stomped on by the political a$$'s that are running aka ruining our country!
What about alcohol?? Now there's something that when consumed at great lenghts is lethal. I've never seen on the front page where it reads " five dead, killed by a driver under the influence of cigarettes" but I can say everyday I can read in the paper that one or more are killed by a drunk driver.


If you want to kill yourself so badly, do it in a way that won't hurt everyone around you. The people's rights that are being stomped on are all the innocent people around you who have to breathe it in as well. People like you only care about themselves and are too stupid to think about what you're really doing.
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-1 #18 truth istruth 2011-09-04 09:41
The truth is that smoking is like doing drugs which f%cks them up in the brain. Most of the smokers I met lie, cheat, and think that they are on the top of the world until they crave another puff and shake nervously like a retard.
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-2 #17 Smokers inconsiderate???Joanmarie 2011-08-13 14:50
Please this is making me sick!! Yes I'm a smoker and proud of it!! I'm also a citizen of the United States of America and I'm getting my rights stomped on by the political a$$'s that are running aka ruining our country!
What about alcohol?? Now there's something that when consumed at great lenghts is lethal. I've never seen on the front page where it reads " five dead, killed by a driver under the influence of cigarettes" but I can say everyday I can read in the paper that one or more are killed by a drunk driver.
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0 #16 smokers are inconsiderate, sorry.bou 2011-04-28 08:42
Quoting Guest:
I am a smoker and have been for 11 years. I have no desire to quit either. Smokers know that it is a bad habit we don't think smoking is good for us. I am sick of people saying Smokers should be taxed more when they buy Cigs. I live in a very conservative state and they have taxed the hell out of Tobacco. Why should the smoker pay more taxes? I am not an inconsiderate smoker. I don't light up in people's houses or cars who don't smoke. This is the world of the non-smoker. You wanted the Airplanes,Bars, Restaraunts,Air ports and many other places smoke free,you got your wish. I don't think that smokers should have to be second class citizens. As for seeing people go through withdrawls it is very bad I know I would go insane if I couldn't smoke. I always ask if people are offended by smoking before I light up. If they are I wait to smoke until that person or people have left. I think it is pretty sad when people have to single out the smoker as the bad guy. The goverment is putting a "sin" tax on tobacco to try to get people to quit. It won't work. It is like Dennis Leary says "they are a drug and we are additicted." I don't feel that anyone has the right to take away my freedom of choice. I choose to smoke and am considerate to others when I do, so saying all smokers are inconsiderate is making a general statement that is very close minded.


You sound considerate but unfortunately you are a rare case from my experience. I cannot open my window because someone in my apartment complex is chain smoking constantly. I have asthma and it is exacerbated by smoking. Smokers complain about their rights but yet I actually had to QUIT a job because my smoking coworker who sat next to me kept smoking out the window and my health got so bad I had no choice but to leave.

Rather than "tell on her" I asked her to stop, but she was incredulous that it bothered me. Rather than go to HR I decided to find a new job. So I feel that my whole life seems to be affected by YOUR choice to smoke. Sorry I have asthma, sorry I get sick. But I really despise smokers because of my experiences. I'm sure SOME are considerate but the majority I've seen aren't. Oh and I love the ones that don't want the smoke in their house so they smoke out their window or on their porch so it goes into everyone else's house.
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0 #15 Smokersjanine r 2011-04-08 18:58
Are you guys serious? I don't want to smell smoke as I'm walking into a building. Smoking does make you smell, your hair smells, your clothes, etc. And 2nd hand smoke is bad for people also. Specially ones like my daughter who has asthma. So can't even be around anyone that smokes!
@ kaimiryu Drinking and eating burgers doesn't blow smoke into my face. What does drinking and eating burgers have to do with people that smoke?
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-1 #14 just a thoughtGuest 2011-01-19 17:21
I don't know who gave you the right to go around judging other people and what they choose to do. I'm sure that people smoking wouldn't mind moving if you just asked them nicely. Instead I'm sure you're out there giving dirty looks and judging what they are doing.

You have NO IDEA what people may be going through or what they have been through to cause them to do what they do, but again, you have no right. You're so foolish by the things you say, and my advice to you, would be to GROW UP. Stop being selfish and consider other people's feelings.
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-1 #13 non smoking and pro smokingtimewilltell 2011-01-17 19:57
I was raised by non-smokers and for some reason developed this total hate of smoking. When I met my ex-husband I was only 16 and he smoked, in the beginning I explained to him that I would not stay with him if he continued to smoke. Well like a young man will do he lied and led me to believe he had quit. After we were married I soon discovered that he had not and nor did he plan to. It ruined most of the beginning of our marriage because I had no comprehension of what it was I really asking him to do.The only thing I knew was that he had lied to me. Finally our marriage dissolved for other reasons.

Time moved forward I got a little older and started to understand that the way I was behaving was ridiculas. You can't force someone into something just because it is healthier or alienate them because you do not agree. Ironically I have now come full circle, a couple of years after my divorce I myself began smoking. Totally shocking for anyone that had known me when I was growing up.

My smoking has also led to having to hide it from my family, I am now remarried, an adult with my own home and I have to hide this from my family and certain friends. This is what I regret the most, due to the fact that I know it will be an inconvience typically I will not participate in family functions.I know that must sound ridiculas to forego time with your family because of smoking.

I had actually quit for quite some time and it was such a relief, being able to come and go without having to worry about smelling like smoke or wanting a cigarette. But alas I began smoking again, I am courteous I smoke outside of my house and typically not in a car. Most smokers want to be courteous however this ban on smoking is getting out of hand.

People have smoked for a long time and will continue to do so, the increase in price is not going to stop smoking, the smokefree bars, etc. People single out smokers because typically you either are or not a smoker. If you are not you do not understand, if you are you just want to smoke and be left alone. It is almost a current day segregation.

Most people are not going to come into contact with enough second hand smoke to seriously impact their health, unless you have serious medical issues. People are dying every day of things that can be prevented by a healthier lifestyle.

The only reason smokers are attacked is because society has made it acceptable. You would not walk into a restaurant and start berading someone who is overweight for ordering a burger. If you don't like smoke, why is not as much your obligation to deal with as someone who smokes accepting that if they want to do certain things they will probably not be able to smoke?
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-3 #12 Smokers are heartlessGuest 2010-12-07 14:18
What do you mean second hand smoke isn't dangerous?? It causes asthma and lung cancer just as quickly as actually smoking the cigarette. And if you go outside to smoke, you're not off the hook because the smoke lingers and infects everyone around you. How, then, can you live with yourself if you know you're giving innocent human beings an incurable and fatal disease?? So smokers, even if unknowingly, are inconsiderate and heartless! And by the way, smokers shouldn't have the right to choose between lighting up and slowly killing people or not. It's basically murder towards you and others and other drugs like heroin aren't legal, so why should an addicting drug like cigarettes, which are just as harmful as heroin, be legal??
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