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Story by Trina
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I married young against my family's wishes. I fell in love with a handsome, older man whom I met at a coffee house. He was married at the time and not before long we began our love affair. We fell in love and he decided to leave his wife for me. We got married a few months after his divorce was final... No family or friends just he and I at a chapel in Vegas. 

 

His ex-wife couldn't have children and he wanted to be a father very badly. I wanted to give him what he always wanted, so we started trying right away. It didn't take long at all for me to get pregnant. We  now have two children, they are the loves of our life. I really couldn't ask for a better father for my kids, he's incredible. I truly believe becoming a father was his destiny.

As far as our relationship goes, the spark has gone out. My husband is often away on business for long periods of time and I get very lonely. Our sex life has deteriorated over the years and become very sparse. I feel like I'm in my sexual prime and unfortunately my husband is no longer interested in being intimate as he once was. I have had plenty of conversations with him about this but things just don't seem to change.

affair_desperate-housewifeFor the past few months I have been seeing someone else. I met him at my dentist's office. We were the only people in the waiting room and he started a conversation with me. We flirted and I felt sexy and confident as I once used to. The sexual chemistry between us was very apparent to the both of us. When my name was called for the appointment, he boldly asked me for my phone number. I thought about it and decided to give him my cell phone number.

He called me later that day and we ended up talking for hours. I told him I was married and he didn't seem to mind. He called me everyday for weeks trying to persuade me to go out with him, so I finally decided to have dinner with him. We had a nice time and both didn't want the evening to end. Later that night he took me to a casino. We went to a night club there and did some dancing and drinking. I was so sexually frustrated by the lack of sex in my marriage, it didn't take much for him to get me in bed.  He rented a room at the casino and I had the best sex of my life.

I continue to see him as often as I can when my husband is away. I do feel some guilt about not being faithful, but I am too young to give up on sex as my husband clearly has. I still love the wonderful man I'm married to and I always will...I just don't want to be lonely anymore and this other guy makes sure my needs are met.
 

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-1 #9 Children's respect — Bobi1229 2011-05-21 20:22
I lived a dead abusive marriage for over 30 yrs, so my children would have their father's full support w/educations that they would use for life. Worked, they are both successful good people today. And he left me, lived his "Fun" life while I worked, raised the children, & moved on. Would not DATE, I did not want my children to call me "Ho". I am so proud of myself, alone is great, try it.
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+3 #8 RE: Desperate Housewife — amnightus 2011-02-02 19:37
Quoting Guest:
So what it seems like to me is that your husband is probably doing the same thing to you as he did to his ex wife, and seeing someone else.


Yeah, this was my first thought. Cheaters who get married and then end up cheating on each other. Wow, what a shocker :P

But my take on this is a little different. If they can make this work, then have at it. Cheat on each other and be happy.
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+3 #7 RE:DESPRATE HOUSE WIFE — lovely777 2010-12-25 13:07
HELLO, WHEN A CHEATER CHEATS WITH YOU KNOWING YOU'RE MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE THEY WILL ALSO CHEAT ON YOU. BECAUSE THERE WAS NO REAL LOVE AND REAL TRUST FROM THE BEGINING. IT'S NO SURPRISE YOU'RE IN THE SITUATION YOU'RE IN. IT'S BEST NOT TO JUST LIVE IN SOME FANTASY WORLD ABOUT FINDING A REAL MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP IF THIS IS THE WAY YOU START A RELATIONSHIP BY YOU BOTH BEING LIARS AND CHEATS.
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+3 #6 Desperate Housewife Alright — maryjane 2010-12-15 10:29
Was she eluding to the fact that hubby doesn’t want sex as much because he’s older? Clearly when one or both of them contracts a sexually transmitted disease she will soon realize his age had nothing to do with it. She knew what he was when she married him... a cheater. Her way of solving the matter was to cheat back. So now they both just cheat on each other.

Don’t you just envy her situation ??? I can’t ask her how it feels to have the same thing done to her because apparently she’s clueless. She hasn’t even considered the possibility that hubby is cheating on her. My question is what does she want from the rest of the world? Tell her to get a divorce and she is still going to do what she wants anyhow regardless of what anyone here says. It seems she and her husband are more alike than they care to realize.
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+4 #5 seriously? — Guest 2010-11-06 06:16
Soon, he will know exactly how his ex-wife felt....KARMA
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+3 #4 shame on you — Guest 2010-08-03 09:46
You took vows. You should not be doing that to your family if you want someone else you need to get a divorce. You want the cake and want to eat it too. Somebody will find out and then think of what your children will think of you. They'll think that because mom did it it's ok for me to do it. But then again you and he must not care about that since that is how you met each other. Shame on you both. Buy a vibrator and do it yourself.
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+1 #3 been there — Guest 2010-07-28 15:19
:oops: Well as someone who saw a married man for 13 years and has nothing to show for it, she (the wife) didn't like having sex. This man was incredibly handsome little red neck, and I pined for him for years and took the little snatches of time I could get from him just so I could be with him. He ended up getting throat cancer and having half of his throat removed, went through chemo and radiation, and then told me he wanted to "test it out" to see if it worked after radiation. Well the magic was gone, I have decided it's not worth it to be so sneaky, better to live the truth and know what you're dealing with. You're affecting 2 families here, yours and his, major devastation. Go back to being a good wife and mother and get yourself a toy for when the hubby is out of town!! Good luck honey, feel for ya.
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+6 #2 I agree with WOW — Guest 2010-07-28 15:00
Something must be up with your husband. He's away often, then it just develops that he's not interested in sex anymore. Plus he cheated on his first wife with you. ... So it's not rocket science. Is dentist office lover boy worth marrying? Maybe that's the best thing, although a messy custody fight is sure to ensue.
Good Luck
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+5 #1 Wow — Guest 2010-07-27 22:17
So what it seems like to me is that your husband is probably doing the same thing to you as he did to his ex wife, and seeing someone else.
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