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I was very career oriented when I was younger and I was studying to be an attorney when I met my husband. We fell head over heels in love and before I blinked I was married and expecting our first baby. My plans of finishing law school were put on hold once our daughter was born. We decided it would be best if I would be a stay at home mom for the time being. A couple of years later I became pregnant with my second baby. I accepted the fact that my life took a different route and I thoroughly enjoy being a devoted mom to two wonderful girls. The plan was eventually down the line I would go back to school and get my degree. Well, things don't always go as planned and over time I changed my mind about my career path. Once both my children were in elementary school I decided it was time for me to get back to the working world. I didn't realize till I went back to work how much I missed being in the company of grown ups and being able to have adult conversations with someone other than my husband and friends. I got a job at a hospital and that is where I met Mike. He is an anesthesiologist there and he is also married. When I first saw him, something inside me knew that we would be more than just friends. Mike is a very good looking man and although I consider myself attractive I did not think he would ever be interested in me. I couldn't help to be more drawn to him every time I ran into him at work. It's as if there was a magnetic field drawing the two of us together.
We flirted on and off, but things changed at this past Christmas party at work. My husband couldn't make the party and his wife was visiting some family so we ended up spending almost the whole evening together. Once the party was over, Mike asked me to go out for a drink. I thought about it for a second and quickly accepted his invite. Afterwards, we ended up getting a room at a hotel, and the rest is history. This affair of ours has been going on for almost seven months. We both agree this is just a fling and will never go beyond it. He has no plans of leaving his wife, and I won't leave my husband. When we get together it is strictly for sex and nothing else. |
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As far as my relationship with my husband, things were generally fine and I considered myself happily married. I tried to get Mike off my mind but couldn't. I found myself fantasizing about him even while I was making love to my husband. I did not tell anyone including my best friend about how I was feeling because I though I was just going through a phase that would pass, and I didn't want to make a big deal out of it.
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I more or less agree with this sentiment. I won't judge you, but I will say that mathematically, if you guys are 99.9% super careful, that it is still only a matter of time before you get caught. So, get this fling out of your system, screw each other's brains out and then end it.
Seriously, you'd be surprised how you will randomly get caught. But you will get caught. I'd say it's almost impossible to carry on an affair like yours for more than a year, two at most...before the math catches up with you and you get caught in some super strange unbelieveable way. Like your husband is having a business lunch on the "other" side of town, gets lost, and sees your car pulling into a hotel.
Anyways, have fun, get it out of your system but stop before you get caught.
YOU NEED TO STOP. I HOPE YOU DON'T GET PREGNANT BY YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN YOU WON'T KNOW WHO THE DAD IS. AND IF AN STD POPS UP HOW WILL YOU EXPLAIN THAT TO YOUR HUSBAND? IF YOU LOVE YOUR HUSBAND WHICH I DON'T THINK YOU LOVE HIM THE WAY YOU SHOULD, THEN YOU WILL STOP THIS SELFISH ACT!
What she's doing to her kids is even worse, they have no defenses. Well what can you do, some people are going to screw up their lives and that's the way it's always been. But do not deceive yourself. You're doing a terrible thing to people who love you, and you're losing people's respect because you deserve to.
Really you are not the only one doing it, not a monster, and not a w#ore.
Why are you still with your husband if you're phucking around with another man?
You're a piece of sh!t, honestly.
1. Stop this relationship NOW and come clean with your husband.
2. Stop this relationship NOW, do not tell your husband, and take what you have done to your grave.
3. Continue and lose everything that you value.
Ask yourself this, How would I feel if my husband was with my best friend?
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