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Story by Suella
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A few months ago I was spending the day with my sister when something came up and she had to cut our time together short. Never in my wildest dreams could I imagine what I found when I got home that day. I walked in on my husband in the bathroom and found him dressed up in women's clothing...he had a wig on, a dress, high heels, and was in the process of putting makeup on. 

 

I was flabbergasted at the vision before my eyes, I could not believe what I saw right in front of me. It was nowhere near Halloween and I knew right then I had a problem on my hands. I did not know what to think or how to feel as I looked at him in disbelief. The man who pledged to be my husband was standing there looking like a drag queen. He was clearly embarrassed to be seen this way and apologized profusely as he took off the the getup he was wearing.

 

I'm dumbfounded that something like this was going on right under my nose.  My dear loving husband, the person I thought I knew best, has been living a double life and hiding this secret from me. I am very disturbed at his revelation and feel uneasy to be around him at times. I always saw my husband as a manly man, now I can't get the image of seeing him in a dress out of my mind. I don't know if I can trust him after finding this out and I also worry he might be gay. I did not sign up for this when I exchanged wedding vows with him...I married a Man not a woman!  This is a huge turn off for me...if I wanted to be with someone who wears women's clothes I would be a lesbian. 

cross-dresserHe tells me his cross dressing does not mean he's into men and insists he is straight. He claims this is just one part of him that he feels he needs to express because it's a strong compulsion and hard for him to fight. I was promised he wouldn't leave the house when he cross dresses and he would be discreet about it. Personally, I would prefer if he only stuck to wearing men's clothes but I am willing to let him continue playing dress up when I'm not around. It is just too hard for me to see him trying to look like a woman. He has however started to wear woman's panties full time except for when we make love. I'm finding it difficult to be sexually attracted to him anymore.

I desperately want to talk to my best friend about this but he made me promise not to tell our family or friends. I needed an outlet and decided to post my story anonymously in hopes of getting some feedback from the readers. I would love to know if there are other women in my position and what their experiences are like.


 

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0 #147 RE: Cross-Dressing HusbandP 2014-07-27 17:14
I caught my husband 6 years ago and he still does it. I want to throw up every time he does it. He is a closet gay man who will be divorced once our youngest turns 18. I already have the paperwork started- 13 more years. I am positive he will come out when his parents pass away. He lied about being straight. I know I am the most sexually deprived wife around, he's to busy looking at shemale porn and has to dress up to get in the mood.
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+1 #146 Nothing to worry aboutJim 2013-09-28 04:56
As a man who does this frequently let me tell you that you have nothing to worry about, it's just a simple fetish. This does not mean that he is gay or cheating, it simply means he has a thing for certain types of womens clothes. The sight of them is probably a turn on for him, and when he has the opportunity to wear the sexy clothes he desires it is such a good feeling, and the thrill of possibly getting caught makes it that much more of a turn on for him. I myself have a huge fetish for leather, (gloves, boots, leather pants) and my wife knows this and accommodates me. She lets me but her knee boots and leather clothing. But what she doesn't know is when I get the chance when she is not around I love to get dressed up in her clothes and boots, check myself out and pleasure myself. I mean I don't use a wig or makeup, just putting the clothes on is a real turn on. Sometimes I put on a pair of tight leather pants with knee boots underneath, one of her sweaters, and pull on a pair of tight leather driving gloves on. Other times I pick out a sexy skirt outfit, with knee high boots, and some stockings and a garter belt. But the bottom line is womens clothes are so much sexier than any men's clothing, so don't get all upset because the guy wants to feel sexy when your not around.
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-1 #145 My husband just told me he like womens clothesCaireann 2013-09-17 23:23
This Quoting Jane.:
You all crack me up, I dont see any reason for alarm here, These are "Clothes"people, Get real, If a man wishes to wear panties so be it, a bra? cami? who cares, Believe me, If I had to wear my husbands underwear I would kill to get back into my own , I find the idea of a man in silky under garments rather nice, Although , it would be in most mens favor to do a little "manscaping" before doing so, Anyway Ladies; To that end I believe you might have a much better, much more attentive ,much sexier man around if you just bought him some nice lingerie from time to time.

I am totally I agreement with you on this.. I love how my husband has opened up and is feeling much more confident and sure of himself.. I fully support him ;o)
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-1 #144 My husband just told me he like womens clothesCaireann 2013-09-17 23:21
Quoting sean:
I'm a married man who likes to wear panties. At first I didn't tell my wife but ever since I did I feel much better. She doesn't get turned on by it but it doesn't bother her. She and I like to stroll around the house in our panties together now.

My husband just told me fri that he liked dressing in womens clothes... He said he was scared to tell me...I am fully supporting him in his endeavor. We even went out that night and bought him some undies ;o)
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0 #143 RE: Cross-Dressing Husbandwho cares 2013-07-25 08:23
Big fvckin' deal! It's CLOTHING. What universal law states that it's somehow wrong for one gender to wear another's clothing?

Probably some guys cross dress as a way of feeling womanly textures without having to bother with the [censored] factor.
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+2 #142 Me Toosean 2013-04-04 15:17
I'm a married man who likes to wear panties. At first I didn't tell my wife but ever since I did I feel much better. She doesn't get turned on by it but it doesn't bother her. She and I like to stroll around the house in our panties together now.
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0 #141 Me too...Mimi 2013-04-02 07:32
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-1 #140 Me too...Mimi 2013-04-02 07:30
My husband was caught doing something online but erased it all and then told me he likes women's blouses. I was six months pregant and came from an abusive family. Had no friends where we moved too and the Internet was not around.
Later he told me that he wAs a lesbian caught in a mans body and dressing up was part of him. That he was not gay. I accepted it and even let him use my clothes and helped him out. As long as he respected my boundaries and didnt dress in front of me... That was ok.
For years I thought it was harmless and he was not cheating on me.
Then I found him on a dating site dressed and looking fir gay sex and meeting up with others at a bar while in a business trip.
My child and I wondered why we never got invited along... As all our friends husbands always took their families along.
People found that odd. I trusted him.
He swears he didn't have sex and won't want to expose himself to HIV but there are missing condomes.
He vowed to just dress at home and not meet me any more men. He claimed it was just to go out and meet others and get support.
I guess I sound like a blind wife. A fool. But I have him another chance for the sake of our 2o year marriage and that Iove him and our daughter needs a dad.
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-1 #139 RE: Cross-Dressing HusbandCeresa 2013-03-27 21:12
Thanks for sharing your experience, I don't know if it's shock I'm in (even though it's been 2 months). Did I do something wrong to make this happen?
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+1 #138 Mr ManMacho 2013-03-13 09:14
People keep saying this is 'not normal'. what is 'normal?'. To me there is no such thing as normal. He wears women's clothing sometimes- so what? It is not illegal or harmful to anybody. I think too many people are so small minded and some women have unrealistic expectations of what a man should be ie. successful, rich, manly yet sensitive and caring, thoughtful, good listener yet all man etc etc. this type of man really does not exist in reality. We are all human. women a 100 years ago were not allowed to wear trousers or do anythign macho. Women now can dress like men or women and do female or male jobs. Women can be tomboys its cool. Let these men dress as women if they want and be sissies. Life is too short.
It is the woman's insecurity just like insecure men in the past against more masculine women.
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