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Story by Suella
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A few months ago I was spending the day with my sister when something came up and she had to cut our time together short. Never in my wildest dreams could I imagine what I found when I got home that day. I walked in on my husband in the bathroom and found him dressed up in women's clothing...he had a wig on, a dress, high heels, and was in the process of putting makeup on. 

 

I was flabbergasted at the vision before my eyes, I could not believe what I saw right in front of me. It was nowhere near Halloween and I knew right then I had a problem on my hands. I did not know what to think or how to feel as I looked at him in disbelief. The man who pledged to be my husband was standing there looking like a drag queen. He was clearly embarrassed to be seen this way and apologized profusely as he took off the the getup he was wearing.

 

I'm dumbfounded that something like this was going on right under my nose.  My dear loving husband, the person I thought I knew best, has been living a double life and hiding this secret from me. I am very disturbed at his revelation and feel uneasy to be around him at times. I always saw my husband as a manly man, now I can't get the image of seeing him in a dress out of my mind. I don't know if I can trust him after finding this out and I also worry he might be gay. I did not sign up for this when I exchanged wedding vows with him...I married a Man not a woman!  This is a huge turn off for me...if I wanted to be with someone who wears women's clothes I would be a lesbian. 

cross-dresserHe tells me his cross dressing does not mean he's into men and insists he is straight. He claims this is just one part of him that he feels he needs to express because it's a strong compulsion and hard for him to fight. I was promised he wouldn't leave the house when he cross dresses and he would be discreet about it. Personally, I would prefer if he only stuck to wearing men's clothes but I am willing to let him continue playing dress up when I'm not around. It is just too hard for me to see him trying to look like a woman. He has however started to wear woman's panties full time except for when we make love. I'm finding it difficult to be sexually attracted to him anymore.

I desperately want to talk to my best friend about this but he made me promise not to tell our family or friends. I needed an outlet and decided to post my story anonymously in hopes of getting some feedback from the readers. I would love to know if there are other women in my position and what their experiences are like.


 

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+1 #150 How to best support my brotherSara H 2015-04-15 08:27
My brother is 19, and recently dropped out of college. He has seemed depressed and just lost. My younger sister (17) has noticed her clothes going missing and caught him wearing her clothes. Recently she came home to discover he had taken and worn all of her pajamas while she was away on a trip. After reading many of your guys experiences it seems like he may just have a fetish but maybe is tour ended wondering if it's more? I don't know how to best support him and let him know he is loved no matter what. Gay, straight, or fetish, I really just want to figure out how to help him through this stage where he just seems stuck in life. No motivation, he is so bright and has so much to offer the world. Would it help to buy him some clothes? A pair of fuzzy pants or would that be too presumptive? Guys who have been there, what should I do?
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+1 #149 title?Jamesz 2015-03-26 16:08
it's normal for guys to dress up in frilly things when the wives are away.
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+1 #148 I understand how you feel...Suzanne 2015-01-07 05:24
or I should say I understand how your husband feels. I am a married cross dresser with 3 kids from 25 all the way down to 16.
Two girls and one boy. I came out to my wife about 3 years ago after dressing seriously for about 10 years. My wife is a teacher and I work from home in a technology related field.
I started buying my own clothes, shoes, makeup, etc... to dress completely as a woman. I'm not gay. My wife is the only person I am attracted to but for as long as I can remember I occasionally have the desire to dress as a female. These feelings went away in my late twenties through my thirties but came back with a vengeance in my 40's. There was no life changing experience where I became this way at some point it's just always been there on some level.
My wife had way too much to drink at a party the night I told her. She was not accepting at first but has come to terms with it over the last couple of years. We have decided to keep it just between us and not tell the kids.
I get a lot of pleasure out of getting and being dressed. It is a major form of stress relief plus I love the way women's clothes feel and look. It's like getting to be a different person for a little while. I still love being a guy, camping, mountain biking, etc... but the small amount of time I get to spend dressed is very important to me.
My dressing is not a threat to my wife. She helps me with my female look so much I don't know what I would do without her. Now she even buys me a dress or something from Victorisa's Secret for special occasions.
My advice to you is to try to be understanding. You husband has probably had this desire all his life and can't control it without it making him extremely unhappy. I know it's a shock but if you have kids please try.
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-1 #147 RE: Cross-Dressing HusbandP 2014-07-27 17:14
I caught my husband 6 years ago and he still does it. I want to throw up every time he does it. He is a closet gay man who will be divorced once our youngest turns 18. I already have the paperwork started- 13 more years. I am positive he will come out when his parents pass away. He lied about being straight. I know I am the most sexually deprived wife around, he's to busy looking at shemale porn and has to dress up to get in the mood.
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+1 #146 Nothing to worry aboutJim 2013-09-28 04:56
As a man who does this frequently let me tell you that you have nothing to worry about, it's just a simple fetish. This does not mean that he is gay or cheating, it simply means he has a thing for certain types of womens clothes. The sight of them is probably a turn on for him, and when he has the opportunity to wear the sexy clothes he desires it is such a good feeling, and the thrill of possibly getting caught makes it that much more of a turn on for him. I myself have a huge fetish for leather, (gloves, boots, leather pants) and my wife knows this and accommodates me. She lets me but her knee boots and leather clothing. But what she doesn't know is when I get the chance when she is not around I love to get dressed up in her clothes and boots, check myself out and pleasure myself. I mean I don't use a wig or makeup, just putting the clothes on is a real turn on. Sometimes I put on a pair of tight leather pants with knee boots underneath, one of her sweaters, and pull on a pair of tight leather driving gloves on. Other times I pick out a sexy skirt outfit, with knee high boots, and some stockings and a garter belt. But the bottom line is womens clothes are so much sexier than any men's clothing, so don't get all upset because the guy wants to feel sexy when your not around.
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0 #145 My husband just told me he like womens clothesCaireann 2013-09-17 23:23
This Quoting Jane.:
You all crack me up, I dont see any reason for alarm here, These are "Clothes"people, Get real, If a man wishes to wear panties so be it, a bra? cami? who cares, Believe me, If I had to wear my husbands underwear I would kill to get back into my own , I find the idea of a man in silky under garments rather nice, Although , it would be in most mens favor to do a little "manscaping" before doing so, Anyway Ladies; To that end I believe you might have a much better, much more attentive ,much sexier man around if you just bought him some nice lingerie from time to time.

I am totally I agreement with you on this.. I love how my husband has opened up and is feeling much more confident and sure of himself.. I fully support him ;o)
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0 #144 My husband just told me he like womens clothesCaireann 2013-09-17 23:21
Quoting sean:
I'm a married man who likes to wear panties. At first I didn't tell my wife but ever since I did I feel much better. She doesn't get turned on by it but it doesn't bother her. She and I like to stroll around the house in our panties together now.

My husband just told me fri that he liked dressing in womens clothes... He said he was scared to tell me...I am fully supporting him in his endeavor. We even went out that night and bought him some undies ;o)
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+1 #143 RE: Cross-Dressing Husbandwho cares 2013-07-25 08:23
Big fvckin' deal! It's CLOTHING. What universal law states that it's somehow wrong for one gender to wear another's clothing?

Probably some guys cross dress as a way of feeling womanly textures without having to bother with the [censored] factor.
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+3 #142 Me Toosean 2013-04-04 15:17
I'm a married man who likes to wear panties. At first I didn't tell my wife but ever since I did I feel much better. She doesn't get turned on by it but it doesn't bother her. She and I like to stroll around the house in our panties together now.
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+1 #141 Me too...Mimi 2013-04-02 07:32
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