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Last time I went out to lunch with my man the waitress couldn't help herself but to flirt with him. Maybe she was thinking that he was cute and/or possibly thought she'd get a bigger tip if she batted her eyelashes at him. Either way, I found her annoying. She kept coming and asking if everything was alright and if he needed anything else, all while glaring at him and completely ignoring my presence. I was polite and kept my composure the whole time. I wasn't going to cause a scene and I waited till we were done eating to get my revenge. 

 

The stupid girl had no clue that I was treating my man to lunch and I was footing the bill. I guess she should have flirted with me instead of him. I'm sure she must've felt dumb when I pulled out the money to pay and she ended up with a crappy tip. That's what she gets for flirting with someone else's man…mind you she did that right in front of me which I found disrespectful and inappropriate. That waitress should consider herself lucky that I'm not one of those psycho girlfriends that wants to kick another girl's as$ just for looking at her man. I hope she learned from this experience because next time she might not be so lucky and instead of a sh*tty tip she might get a black eye.flirting-waitress
 

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0 #7 RE: Inappropriate Flirting — anonymous 2011-07-26 18:21
I don't think you were over reacting at all, that's terribly disrespectful and rude to flirt with your guy in front of you. I understand being friendly but to sit there and ignore you, come on now people that's too much. And if you're a waitress and do that shame on you. If I was you I wouldn't have been so nice, I wouldn't have left ANY tip and would have written a note for her explaining why on the receipt.
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-2 #6 Wow... — Dogfish 2011-02-26 05:07
It's amazing how insecure and nasty you are. I don't give it a second thought when a waitress is attentive to my fiance. It's her JOB. I consider it a compliment to my good taste in men. He's handsome, yes, but also very devoted to our relationship. Maybe that's what you're missing.
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+1 #5 RE: Inappropriate Flirting — Tam 2011-01-23 14:15
;-) You know, I think that the waitress was just doing her job and as someone mentioned before, she was really outgoing and friendly. I'd personally be a tad annoyed, HOWEVER, I'd feel flattered that someone felt my man was cute enough to flirt with. I'd feel even better knowing that I am the one that gets to take him home, not the waitress. Have some security. The lady was over the top friendly...so what. Did your man notice? Did he flirt back? Don't get mad at her. You may not even see her again. If a man was flirting with you like that, would you expect your man to get upset? Isn't that a bit insecure?
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-1 #4 RE: Inappropriate Flirting — Guest 2011-01-22 09:28
I used to wait tables...
Maybe she really was flirting. (I doubt this.)
Or maybe she could just feel your hatred and insecurity, and had a hard time maintaining eye contact because of it.
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-1 #3 ex-waitress — timewilltell 2011-01-18 19:04
This seems a little over reactive. I know that yes some women can go too far. I have had my husband flirted with or perceived flirted with in front of me, but you really need to consider that all flirting is typically over niceness. I consider it a compliment and am comfortable with the fact that he probably does too, and it is flattering.

Most waitresses that are good at their job are typically very outgoing. Unless she is making an effort to touch him or getting unnecessarily close to him it was probably just her way of being nice. If your husband took you out for an elegant dinner and the Matre'd pulled your chair out for you, took your coat for you, and offered you a flower would you consider that flirting? Would you expect your husband to consider that disrespectful and storm out? Probably not.

In your post you said "She kept coming and asking if everything was alright and if he needed anything else", forgive me but isn't that her job? As far as the waitress considering herself lucky because you were able to refrain from kicking her a*s, NO- you are the one that is lucky. Being able to supress wanting to assault someone does not deserve a medal, that is the way people are supposed to behave.

Who knows maybe you are right and she was totally out of line or maybe she was just trying to do her job, which you admited that she did and you are just a cheap skate that stiffed her.
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+1 #2 Flirting waitress — Guest 2011-01-18 09:16
She was obviously trying to work him for a tip. You got the last laugh when you ended up paying the bill and gave her a tip she did not expect. GOOD for you.
I personally would have left no tip at all. I also would have left her a note on the bill stating why she didn't deserve one.
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0 #1 Guest 2011-01-16 06:48
HELLO, GIRL. I WOULD'NT HAVE GAVE HER A TIP AT ALL. SOME WOMEN OUT THERE DON'T RESPECT THE FACT THAT YOUR MAN ALREADY HAS A WOMAN.
EVEN WORST HAS HAPPENED TO ME. MY HUSBAND ENDED UP WITH THE WOMAN THAT WAS TRYING TO TAKE HIM AWAY FROM ME.

THATS WHY HIM AND I ARE NOT TOGETHER. I CALLED HIM AND SHE EVEN ANSWERED THE PHONE!
BE CAREFUL BECAUSE WHEN YOU AND YOUR MAN ARE HAVING PROBLEMS THERE'S ALWAYS GOING TO BE SOME DESPERATE WOMAN WHO'S WAITING TO TAKE YOUR PLACE. SOME MEN ARE WEAK AND FALL FOR HER SHALLOW WAYS. GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
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