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Why is it that women give other women nasty looks, especially when their men are around? I consider myself an attractive woman in my twenties and I have never had problems in the men department.

 

When I'm out places like the mall, the gym, etc...men look at me even though they're often with their girlfriends/wives. It's not my fault. I don't do anything to draw attention to myself. I don't dress overtly sexy and I definitely never flirt with men who are taken. As I was saying...sometimes women look at me as if they want to strangle me for being the object of their men's wandering eyes.

men_checking_out_other_womenI think all men look at other women whether they're involved with someone or not. It seems to be in their nature. I've caught the men I dated staring at other women too. I didn't get jealous and give those ladies nasty looks. I just moved on knowing the guy was with me and not with the girl he was ogling. I have plenty of self confidence and I'm not the jealous type.

Ladies, you shouldn't get mad at other females because your man is staring at them. And you can't expect him to have blinders on when you're out in public together. I personally would be more concerned if my man never checked out other women because that would mean he's probably hiding something.


 

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0 #3 Eyes everywhereCaing,loving 2011-04-19 12:49
Men may look at other women but you have to know he really loves you more than those women. I was dating a nice guy for 7 months. We went out to eat and suddenly, two pretty women walked in and my date was looking at them. A few minutes later I looked at him and he asked "what's wrong? You're the person I love" and he proposed!
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0 #2 Another opinionangel2011 2011-02-18 04:41
Its not always that you're being given a rude look by other women because their men are looking at you. If it's happening with women who are alone then perhaps it's because the way you dress. If you dress provacatively then some women will probably look at you in disgust because there are children around or something. It could be jealousy too. Some women are just insecure like that. But if you're walking around with your butt or boobs hanging out that's most likely the problem. If you dress noticeably you will be noticed.
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+2 #1 Been there...Sel 2011-02-07 07:49
Covergirl, you are right on the money with this!!
Men & women alike do have a wandering eye. It doesn't necessarily mean there is intent to act on a "look", "glare". Most people usually shy away from this or just don't notice at all!

I've caught my husband on many occasions during our 16 year marriage; he's never wandered on me (no I'm not naive). I've called it out to him a few times because I find it funny. I've done it too!! We are both secure and confident in our relationship with one another.

Unfortunately there are those that have inner insecurities either because it's second nature or maybe their mate has given them reason to feel this way. Getting angry or glaring at the person's stare target is rude behavior. What will a person do next, poke out someone's eyes for looking? Everyone has their opinion, none are right or wrong - it's whatever works for you, and are able to live with.
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